Is that means 'life sharing' to the open source?

Since our group had a adequate discussion about the open source which I didn't know too much before, what became to be an arguement is that should open source means the 'life sharing'?
Before the details, a brief description about the 'life sharing'need to be given. Life sharing, be appendent of open course, is a phenomenon that everyone can get what they want from each other and make change for it by themselves. It seems like sometimes we share our computer but not only a textbook or a creatical thinking. Here I want to give some point of my view.
First of all, open source does ask for sharing undoubtly, but it is a kind of sharing that gain the permission from ourselves and it should be unbidden and voluntary. I really can't agree the fact that it is a way to open source if someone enter our computer without our notice or permmision and even change some thing from our own. Sometimes we creat something or great ideas to benefit people who need it, but we also do something only for ourselves, and we won't like to see this kind of secrets or privacy are exposed on the openning platform just like under the spotlight.
Here comes the second point, when we spend more and more time on the computer working or study with, not only the result of our studies, reaserch and other public topics, but plenty of details about our life will be given in a unconsciouse way. Nowadays, it is getting used to share everything impressing us in our life, such as photos, music, videos and experiences, on the internet. It is familiar to the diary by which we depends on a lot to record our life, and owing to this reason, we almost give the outline about our private life towards the 'life sharing' which can be the facebook or something like that in a reall life.
There is no any doubt that open course is a better way to construct the infomation from all overthe world and manage them in a wise way, but it also encourage the curiosty to searching the secret things from other people for the 'life sharing' towards the internet, even sometimes we are not really need that private information.In a conclusion, a proper 'life sharing' can give an improvement about the developing of resource sharing, but it might be a waste of time if we treat the it like a gossiping way, there will be too many useless information being suffered which means nothing.